you know...

I think I've been remarkably quiet about my whole break up... the only trace of the actual event lies in some comments left by her in my comments a few weeks back. I think I'm a fair person and have an enormous amount of room in my heart for moving on and trying to stay positive... I don't hate or resent her. It was not working, we were not happy, it had to end. I have not slung about blame and pointed fingers and been spiteful and all of those easy but wrong things that people do when the part company with their partners... in fact I can clearly say that I do a lot of times miss her company... miss the good times... but am very aware that those memories are all in the past... this is very apparent to me today...

money is evil... it makes every break up even harder... being out of love and subsequently out of pocket just plain sucks... but that's life... you live, you love, you learn... you make similar mistakes... you repeat the cycle... you laugh you cry...

it was really nice to read about how David and Markus were able to meet up for the first time post their break-up... all in due time I suppose... but distance certainly has it's place. Distance is difficult as it comes with time... and time is eternally slow in healing hearts after break-ups...

my advice to me? life is really good right now. smile and enjoy it.